The Top 3 Wrong Ways To Create The Life You Want: A Story in Images


‪#‎GentleNudge‬ ] 3Dec2014 ~
The Top 3 Wrong Ways To Create The Life You Want: A Story in Images

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Here’s Your Weekly Wednesday #GentleNudge To Get You Over The Hump…
and into the weekend!

[ The #1 Wrong Way To Create The Life You Want ]

I often send out emails asking what my clients and audience would like to read about.  I feel there is VALUE in writing, and POWER in writing that speaks to the solving of everyday problems that the motivated people and Entrepreneurs I work with have.

Recently, a client inquired about “How to move away from the stress of NOT Having enough”, essentially in order to have an abundant and exciting business as an Entrepreneur.  Here’s the response I posted.

I received another ask to blog about “how to relax when I just make what I need and not more”. My client went on to ask a few other things, but I’ll sit with this first one first.

Let’s look at some tangible examples to put this into context.
See if you can guess what the #1 Wrong Way to Create The Life You Want is…

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Did you figure it out?

The #1 Wrong Way To Create The Life You Want is being Ungrateful.

Energetically, it puts out a vibration that is the opposite of lovely, no matter how positive, happy and pleasant to be around you may think you are.

Perception is everything:

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So, DO remember this Right Way To Create The Life You Want:

AlwaysBeThankful

[ Worry Gets You No Where ]

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The #2 Wrong Way To Create The Life You Want is Worrying.

Let’s put it into further perspective:

WorryPeace

Put even simpler, the more you worry, the less peace you have. And peace is attained with being grateful for what you do have and where you are…

Aside, there’s really no reason at all for Worry, anyway.
Don’t believe me? Here’s a road map to show you:

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So worry, in a nutshell, doesn’t exist, right? Then that must mean, it is better to

[ Trust and Keep Going ]

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[ #GentleNudge ] 5Nov2014: Trust and Keep Going!

But, how do you do that? For starters, you can read this GentleNudge entitled “Trust and Keep Going“.  You can also, do a self-checkin. Ready?

Choose the answer that fits you best:

TakeAction

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Ah, you chose, “What I Make Happen”. Great!
So, DO remember this Right Way To Create The Life You Want:

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Found Via Google Search

Choose to take action. Remember: It starts with your mind…

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Action is a RIGHT WAY.  And not just any ol’ action, but PERSISTENT action.
(Click to read a blog I wrote about The P.O.P + the Law of Action for your success.)

Bonus Life-REmixing Tip:

Action can go both ways.
INaction is an action just as potent as Action itself!

When you follow the steps I outline about PERSISTENCE, you will naturally stop worrying, and subsequently, start to appreciate where you are and what you have now.

Alas, there’s always

[ The Burden of ‘What If’ ]

“I’m scared of what if I don’t even
make ends meet by the end of the month.”

How often have you had this fear?  I know I have had it numerous times.

And yet, somehow I always ended up “making ends meet”.  Because of this, (and taking action), I’ve settled into the belief that it will always work out somehow.

Maybe it’s because of these astounding statistics about reality:

Life is continually conspiring in your favor. Life is a constant state of creation.
So, I remind you that most of the things you feel you are doomed with

DO NOT and WILL NEVER HAPPEN!

The more you worry, you’re just wasting time, time that could be spent taking action to avoid the things you’re worried about (and that won’t even happen anyway).

And what if they do? Probably means you were worrying instead of taking action!
Make sense?

OK, great.

In conclusion,maya-angelou-top-quotes-7

[ Clarity for Your Success ]

But you can’t take action if you’re not clear.

So, Wrong Way #3 To Create The Life You Want is being Unclear.

Not too long ago, I did a 3-Part Gentle Nudge about Clarity for Success that I encourage you to check out. In reading that series, you will walk away with a lot more insight into what it is that you WANT so that you can start to get the results you want NOW.

So, DO remember this Right Way To Create The Life You Want:

Quote by Steve Maraboli

Quote by Steve Maraboli

You can only set yourself up for success by being Clear and Taking Action to Fix what you Can Control. You can’t have goals if you aren’t clear about what you want in the first place.  You know what I mean?

Oh and remember this important thing:

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So, get clear and shift your mindset.

By the way, the FASTEST way to shift your mindset is with gratitude.

[ In conclusion ]

If you catch yourself saying, “I visualize the life I want and seeing myself on amazing holidays but I’m not just there yet”, 

Then stop doing the Top 3 Wrong Ways I’ve outlined, and START doing more of the RIGHT ways to create the life you want. Namely,

When you do, you will feel more light, life will meet you halfway (or more), and you will learn to relax into the process of co-creation of living a happy, healthy and WHOLE life.

Because truly,

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So, BREATHE, BELIEVE and

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Sound good?

To get back to relaxing into life, here’s a short article I wrote called How To Reframe Your Problems and Manage Stress in 3 Steps.

[ Question For You ]

What is one insight, appreciation or Aha you are taking away from this post?
Would you add any other Wrong Ways to this list?

Please comment below!

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Here’s to your health, happiness and WHOLENESS!

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I use integrative knowledge from my training at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and a depth of life experience, as well as my highly intuitive nature, to get you to TRANSFORM one or more areas of your life, as QUICKLY as possible. I specialize with working with women to reduce stress and worry by helping them have a Happy Period! I also specialize in BREAKTHROUGHS! More information can be found at my official website.

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6 Ways To Clear Your Mind for Clarity and Success (Part 3 of 3) [ #motivation #wellness ]


“#GentleNudge 8Oct2014:
6 Ways To Clear Your Mind for Clarity and Success
(Part 2 of 3)”

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Here’s Your Weekly Wednesday #‎GentleNudge To Get You Over The Hump…
and into the weekend!

(This is the 3rd in a series of 3 posts on Clarity… The 1st post, “12 Questions for Clarity and Success”, can be found here. The 2nd post, “3 More Questions for Clarity and Success”, can be found here.)

Did you know your thoughts become things?

It’s true.  Thoughts are the DNA of the Universe, and you have the power to create all that you want, desire and deserve simply by thinking.

So, knowing this, wouldn’t it be reasonable to say that you should choose your thoughts wisely?

Clear Your Mind of Clutter

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If you are like most people, your mind is filled with a ton of chatter and your life is stress-filled.  Negative thoughts trump the good ones. No matter how hard you try to “stay positive”, you still keep getting the same results.

Why aren’t your positive thoughts working?

Because negativity is a nasty army of extreme force.  Think of it as a weed in a garden.  No matter how great the environment of your harvest (you), or how great the intention to grow your crops through watering every day is (with inspirational, positive thoughts), your seeds (good thoughts), just won’t grow when weeds (negative thoughts) abound in your garden (your mind).

So, what can you do right now that will allow you to be more clear and start seeing your garden grow?  The answer, lies within a simple act of mind clearing.

Remove the weeds

When you start to remove the weeds (negative thoughts, endless chatter), you will have a better chance to see change and transformation happen.

If you are ready to start to make life work for you, check out these 6 ways to clear your Mind from all the Clutter.

Your free Life-REmixing tip:  TAKE ACTION. Remember what I said at the beginning of this post?
By taking the step to remove the clutter of your mind, you’ll be able to see just how powerful my first question was!

REMEMBER: CLARITY WILL SET YOU FREE!

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to REmix Their Life and Take it to the NEXT LEVEL! Sound like you? Then,

My mission is to help YOU become Happier, Healthier and More WHOLE, NOW!

I use integrative knowledge from my training at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and a depth of life experience, as well as my highly intuitive nature, to get you to TRANSFORM one or more areas of your life, as QUICKLY as possible. I specialize with working with women to reduce stress and worry by helping them have a Happy Period! More information can be found at my official website.

My Weekly Wednesday Gentle Nudge, which provides more tips and insight, is always FREE and ALWAYS priceless. 😉 Got a question? Want to say Hi? Feel free to Contact Me*. Listen to my mixtapes on Mixcrate, and be sure to connect with me on Twitter (@djnovajade) and my Facebook Page!

3 More Questions for Clarity and Success (Part 2 of 3) [ #motivation #wellness ]


“#GentleNudge 1Oct2014: 3 More Questions for Clarity and Success (Part 2 of 3)”

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Here’s Your Weekly Wednesday #‎GentleNudge To Get You Over The Hump…
and into the weekend!

(This is the 2nd in a series of 3 posts on Clarity… The 1st post, “12 Questions for Clarity and Success” can be found here, and the 3rd post, “6 Ways To Clear Your Mind for Clarity and Success”, can be found here”.)

Right now, are you the right YOU for the results you want?

Yesterday, I was in a Skype session with a client and we began to discuss the magic of opportunity, and how when you are the right YOU, you’ll always be at the right place at the right time.

Let’s think about that for a moment.

Have you ever been given opportunities to change your current situation and transform areas of your existence, yet you just didn’t resonate with them? I have.  And you know what happened? I either found ways to self-sabotage or be self-defeating, only to “prove” that the opportunities were scams, or just “not for me.”  As I looked around and saw everyone else succeeding, I became more and more frustrated, angered and enveloped with the attitude that life was out to get me…

“There’s a freedom that comes from making your own choices”

Then one day, I heard the quote that changed it all.  Life wasn’t out to get me, I was just not making the right choices. Why? Because I didn’t know what I wanted!

You have a brilliant way of attracting EXACTLY what you want (and don’t want), and no opportunity in the world can be “right”, if YOU aren’t the right you.  Examples: Lottery winners. Celebrities.  If you are not making the right choices, opportunities will fade as quickly as they’ve presented themselves.

So, what choices can you make right now that will allow you to be more clear and start being more free?  The answer, lies within the next question:

Do you know when to say yes?

With choices comes the responsibility to say yes to the opportunities that will move you forward, and say no to the rest.  But, you can only do that when you have CLARITY.  One way to get clear is to define and set your Core Values.

Once you have taken the time to align your Self with the values you identify with, you’ll know when, and when not to, say YES!

Your free Life-REmixing tip:  Knowing yourself is the key to clarity.  Once you take time to figure out who the Authentic YOU is at your core, at any age, you will be more Clear and life will unfold magically in your favor.  The results you desire can only come when YOU are being the right YOU, it’s just that simple…

REMEMBER: CLARITY WILL SET YOU FREE!

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MainImageI am here to INSPIRE motivated people all over the world, WHO ARE READY,
to REmix Their Life and Take it to the NEXT LEVEL! Sound like you? Then,

My mission is to help YOU become Happier, Healthier and More WHOLE, NOW!

I use integrative knowledge from my training at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and a depth of life experience, as well as my highly intuitive nature, to get you to TRANSFORM one or more areas of your life, as QUICKLY as possible. I specialize with working with women to reduce stress and worry by helping them have a Happy Period! More information can be found at my official website.

My Weekly Wednesday Gentle Nudge, which provides more tips and insight, is always FREE and ALWAYS priceless. 😉 Got a question? Want to say Hi? Feel free to Contact Me*. Listen to my mixtapes on Mixcrate, and be sure to connect with me on Twitter (@djnovajade) and my Facebook Page!

24Sept2014 ~ 12 Questions for Clarity and #Success (Part 1 of 3) [ #life #gentlenudge ]


“#GentleNudge 24Sept2014: 12 Questions for Clarity and Success (Part 1 of 3)” clarity

Here’s Your Weekly Wednesday #‎GentleNudge To Get You Over The Hump…
and into the weekend!

(This is the 1st in a series of 3 posts on Clarity… The 2nd post, “3 More Questions for Clarity and Success”, can be found here. The 3rd post, “6 Ways To Clear Your Mind for Clarity and Success”, can be found here”.)

Right now, are you getting the results you want in your life?

If not, are you clear about what you want?

Clarity is not just about being able to see. Clarity is about being able to EMPOWER yourself with a CLEAR VISION… an undeniable KNOWING of which direction to go, whether or not it is actually visible or not to the naked eye.

For example, think of a time you DID achieve the results you were looking for.

What were you doing, or rather, BEING, for them to occur? I can guess that you were being clear.

You maybe had a plan or you just knew you were going to achieve that goal.  However you did it, it was because you were unwavering in knowing what you wanted!

If you are not achieving the results you want (and deserve) right now, what is ONE action you can take TODAY to become more clear?

Everything you need to know is already inside of you.
It truly drives your mind (and the Universe) crazy when you are confusing with what it is you want.  If you have too many options, that’s great!

Now pick the one road to travel FIRST, and see what happens…

Your free Life-REmixing tip: Start today and discuss with yourself your needs and wants.  Write them down. See what feels right, pick one desire to achieve and go forth without delay with your CLEAR vision as your Safety Net.  You’ll save time, reduce heartache and headaches and start to enjoy this wonderful, fun process of Creating Your Life!

CLARITY WILL SET YOU FREE!

PS: These are 12 Questions That Lead To Clarity if you need a little help with this process.  As always you can also reply with a comment or Contact Me*, as well. 🙂

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Hi, I’m Tera*, and I am an Intuitive Health Coach, Award-winning DJ and The Life REmix Expert.

MainImageI am here to INSPIRE motivated people all over the world, WHO ARE READY,
to REmix Their Life and Take it to the NEXT LEVEL! Sound like you? Then,

My mission is to help YOU become Happier, Healthier and More WHOLE, NOW!

I use integrative knowledge from my training at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and a depth of life experience, as well as my highly intuitive nature, to get you to TRANSFORM one or more areas of your life, as QUICKLY as possible. I specialize with working with women to reduce stress and worry by helping them have a Happy Period! I also specialize in BREAKTHROUGHS! More information can be found at my official website.

My Weekly Wednesday Gentle Nudge, which provides more tips and insight, is always FREE and ALWAYS priceless. 😉 Got a question? Want to say Hi? Feel free to Contact Me*. Listen to my mixtapes on Mixcrate, and be sure to connect with me on Twitter (@djnovajade) and my Facebook Page!